When I was buying our Christmas tree (at Costco) earlier this month, I must have had a look of preemptive exhaustion on my face. If I am being honest, I was feeling a bit bah-humbug: somehow already dreading the pine needles and the chore of January undecorating even before I’d left the very un-Hallmark movie Costco parking (tree) lot. Apologizing for my inner Grinch, I turned to the guy helping me and remarked, “December is really tough on moms.”
To which he replied, “I think all months are tough on moms.”
The angels rejoiced! I had been seen! Sometimes validation comes from a 20-something Costco employee (who then went out of his way to help me select the tallest and fullest tree on the truck.).
But did I have to feel this way?
With the tree firmly tied to my roof, I drove away and made a promise to myself to spend the rest of December without the overwhelm that comes when an entire season is masked as a giant magic-making, money-spending to-do list. 13 years into this parenting thing, and I feel like I’m finally enjoying the season with a little more calm.
Something that remains on my to-do list is making this White Winter Chili. It’s one of the most cozy, satisfying, flavorful weeknight recipes I know. It is the opposite of holiday overwhelm, as it’s perfect for a simple gathering (guests can bring a salad and dessert) or as a make-ahead dish ready to reheat after the long winter concert at school.